Its a hair raising experience when as a guy you have to meet your potential date for the first time. A lot has been said about the best way to approach a romantic and lovely woman, but at the moment your head is blank and you think you are confused. You had this romantic and lovely woman you met online or in a bar and after the first date she does not seem interested in meeting you again. You are wondering what may have gone wrong, may be she did not like the shape of your nose or your round head.
All this are worries that will not help you out of your problems. May be she was not meant for you! There is somebody for everyone! Make another attempt, a romantic and lovely woman is waiting, waiting for you to make a move. Get out of that cocoon and face the reality the word is so big for all of us. The fact that you did not succeed should actually give you an opportunity to reassess yourself. The first thing that a woman will look for in a man is the level of confidence. A serious woman is not interested in your money or that sleek car that your friend drives that you always wishes you had. Be yourself, show a very high degree of confidence. If you find it hard pretend, it will come with time.
Remember, proper grooming is very important in the eyes of your potential date. Dress well, trim your hair perfectly and at least apply some Cologne on your body. Ladies enjoy a nice smell. Small precautionary measures will help you a lot in breaking the ice. When you meet her be attentive in what she tells you. Women are very much attracted and sensitive to men who listen to the them, no doubt this will make you score very well. Relax! She no doubts needs a good friend! You might be the one.
When you meet her, just take note of a few things that are important to her. A romantic and lovely woman is not very comfortable with a man who concentrates on her bosom too much. Any woman feels so uncomfortable if too much interest is concentrated there. I know as a man that area is so arousing and every man has an idea of the shape of bosom the potential wife should have. Women also try to understand men when you find thir eyes straying towards that area. Its such sexy and fulfilling for any man to realize the bosom he has always dreamt of is in the potential wife.
Hey! Get out of that cocoon, you think so much about yourself and that is why you fail in the attempts to get a romantic and lovely woman for yourself. Every time you meet your date your brain concentrates so much on what you perceive to be your weaknesses. Everybody has their own weakness. Those things that worry you that much do not exist in her mind and probably she does not note them. There is everybody for everyone take note of that! Your queen is waiting for you somewhere, you only need to take a step of faith and claim her.
Smile and compliment her for the positive things you can identify, women appreciate this things with a lot concern. Show her that you care and you will be with her during the good and the bad times. Women would always want a shoulder to lean on. Note security is the first thing that a romantic and lovely woman will look for in her man, it is always a priority to any woman.
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I'm not a "guy", but I hope it's alright that I put my "2 cents in"..
Have you ever heard the saying "If you love something, set it free… If it comes back, it's yours… If not, it never was"?
I would say that it applies in this situation…
Let him go, hon, get on with your life… If he comes back and says that he made a mistake, then it is up to you to decide what you want to do about it, depending on what is going on in your life at that time…
I know this, because I am living this situation as we speak…
I became friends with a man who's relationship with a woman that he loved with all his heart came to an abrupt end.
We became really close, because I had already been through what he was going through and knew what he was feeling…
One day, I realized that I was totally in love with him, though that was the last thing that I had wanted… He was good about it though and we remained together.
There was a point that she actually called and wanted him back. He had found out, though, that she had lied to him about being married to someone else after their breakup, which made him think twice, even though I knew he loved her still.
I told him to make up his mind, that I was not going to be 2nd choice…. Because of her lies, he chose to stay with me, which for a bit made me feel very secure in our relationship.
Until recently anyway…. Even though she is not in the picture anymore, that I know of anyway….I feel that we are growing apart.
I am beginning to see that maybe he only stayed with me because he knew how much I loved him and how much I had done for him and that leaving me would only hurt me, when I had done nothing to deserve it….
We have been together almost 5 yrs and I still love him dearly, but I am beginning to wonder if that is enough…. I sometimes think that it would have been better to back away in the beginning. It would have still hurt, but nothing like "setting him free" would hurt now…
I hope this helps. Sorry if it seems that I am rambling, but it is a long and confusing story…
Take care and good luck with your situation. Feel free to email me if you ever need to talk.
HOLY CRAP! Comparing this to the original picture, they’re identical!
You should file a police report and contact the babysitting service about this woman.